Death of a loved one leaves us all in dark times. We are left with all sorts of questions, as to why God allowed it to happen and so on. We wonder why God took away our dear one, when He knows how precious they were to us. Many questions have been asked by grieving relatives, about death and why God allows pain and many men and women of God have tried answering their questions from God's Word.
Take heart, know that God cares for you, and look to him for comfort....
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”-Matthew 11:28-30
Also, it's absolutely OKAY to cry and let it all out.
"Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted."-Matthew 5:4
In John 11, not only did Jesus not criticize the family and friends of Lazarus for weeping, He also wept (John 11:35). The Bible teaches us to sympathize and empathize with others who are grieving. After someone's death, it is important for loved ones and friends to spend time together and to reminisce and talk about their precious memories—memories that bring forth warm reflection, tears and laughter. When someone wants to talk about a deceased loved one, be an attentive listener.
"Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep."-Romans 12:15
Today, my heart goes out to our Spotlight girls, Gastianie and Gayana, and all of their family. I pray that through this tough time that they are facing, God sends them peace, strength, hope, and eventually joy.
Whether you are a close friend of these two girls or not, the best things you can do right now and throughout the coming days and weeks is to send this family words of encouragement, hugs, your presence, and most importantly, your prayers.
